The Sisterlocked Diva blog has moved!!

 

The Sisterlocked Diva Blog Has Moved!!

By:  Lauren Francis-Jackson

 

 

Hello Diva followers!  Sorry I have been missing in action on the blog lately!  Truly life just happened and happened fast--hosting events through the meetup group, planning for my first major event next month, and entertaining family in town for the last few weeks!  Also, I have been working the business side of The Sisterlocked Diva!  At the Cupcakes & Cocktails event, I met an awesome web designer who is AMAZING!!  Her name is Toni Patterson, and her company is Skye Media Group.  I just love her-- very professional, can take her expertise and the client's ideas and make it come to life, and keeps in constant communication.  One thing that I had learned from reading other blogs (natural hair/beauty, and non related topics)-- if you want to take it to the next level you have to be on wordpress!  I was unsure of how to make that move but Toni helped me the whole way.  She transferred the posts to the new blog, and created more of a one stop shop!  So what does this mean for those who began following me on blogger and want to see more from me?!  Come join me on the new blog at http://www.thesisterlockeddiva.com!  You will need to follow me again on the new blog and subscribe by email!  I would love to hear your thoughts on the new blog design!  Comments are always welcome!  See you over there :-)

What's the Difference Between Locs and Sisterlocks?



Sisterlocks

 

Traditional locs

What's The Difference Between Locs & Sisterlocks??

By:  Lauren Francis-Jackson

This is not a post about traditional locs or sisterlocks being better than the other!  Get that debate foolery out of here, because both forms of locking are beautiful and stunning in their own way!  This question of how are locs and sisterlocks different is a common question I get frequently after telling people that I have sisterlocks.  So let's break this down in terms of origins, how they are created and maintained, cost, and maintaining locs/sisterlocks.

 

Origins

Traditional locs have their origin in religious and cultural roots.  Originally, traditional locs were a sign of someone trying to get closer to God and explore their spirituality.  There are links back to biblical times of people wearing locs.  In addition the Rastafarian culture looks at the style of traditional dreadlocks as an expression of culture.  Frequently, this is in the form of freeform locks which are not maintained regularly and are formed with varying sized locks.  Over time, people of various races have taken a liking to locs!  Now, locs are worn by men and women in different walks of life from entertainers to the UPS warehouse. 

 

Sisterlocks were created as a trademarked  locking system by Dr. Joanne Cornwell in San Diego, California in 1993.  Frequently, sisterlocks and nappylocks are confused for one another, however they are different in technique and tools.  Sisterlocks are now worn by African American women from the United Kingdom to the United States.  All consultants who install sisterlocks are trained by Dr. Cornwell in classes all over the world. 

 

 

How do you begin Locs or Sisterlocks?

For traditional locs, they can started by a loctician or by a DIY gal or guy.  Starter locs can be started by two strand twists, gel twists/coils, braids (called braidlocs), or retightening a braided style with extensions.   It does not take long to create the base for this style-- no more than an hour or two depending on the speed of the loctician.  You can also begin the starter locs yourself using any of these methods.  Locticians are not required to be licensed cosmetologists, however requirements do vary state to state. 

 

Sisterlocks are very extensive in terms of installation, whether you begin with natural or relaxed hair.  Because these are small, tiny locks created in a precision grid-- it takes a long time to install these 400+ locks on someone's head.  In addition, part of the sisterlock package is to do a consultation before beginning the locks.  There are sisterlock consultants who are trained in the sisterlock process, and may be certified consultants or trainees. The consultation is a time for one to ask questions about sisterlocks, see previous work of the consultant, assess the client's hair, gather information about the client's hair history, and to learn more about the process.  During the locking session, the client's locks are installed beginning the precision parting grid.  Then, three weeks later the client comes back for a follow up visit to assess any potential slippage and the overall condition of the client's locks.  Lastly, if you love color, you should color it before the locks are installed.  You cannot color again unitl your locks are settled. 

 

 

Cost

Traditional locs (starter locs) usually begin at $60-90 to begin these locs at a salon, depending on the region where you live.  Maintenance may be monthly or 6-8 weeks depending on rate of hair growth and recommendation of the loctician.  The maintenance cost usually $50-90 as well depending on if a style is done or not.  Pricing for maintenance may also vary region to region. 

 

Sisterlocks are very expensive to begin the process.  It typically costs anywhere from $600+-1000+ depending on the length of your hair and where you live.  This cost includes the package of three visits: the consultation, locking session, and follow up session.  Then the frequency of retightenings can be anywhere from 4 to 8 weeks, depending on rate of hair growth.  The consultant will let you know at your follow-up how frequently you need to come back for retightenings.  Retightenings usually are charged by the hour with minimum required.  There may be an additional per hour charged.  In additon, there are sisterlocks products.  You are given a starter kit including the Getting Started Sisterlocks Shampoo.  More shampoo can be purchased through the sisterlock website (or perhaps your salon or consultant sellls them as well) for about $13 for a 8 oz. bottle. 

 

 

Maintenance

With all locs, you say goodbye to the product world because less is more with locs and sisterlocks.  With locs, you begin maintenance by keeping your scalp clean and helping the twists and coils in their place to begin that cylinder formation of the loc.  Depending on your hair texture, you may wash with a dry shampoo to keep the hair clean.  The new growth can be palmrolled (most common)using a gel or cream or interlocked using a tool every 6-8 weeks.  Shampoos should not be creamy as they can cause buildup.  Also no creamy things like conditioner and butters should be used on locs.  Later on you can moisturize with natural oils. 

 

Sisterlocks maintenance in the beginning is quite easy on the day to day.  You cannot use oils and conditioner anymore.  You can mist it with water for moisture, and up your water intake to moisturize from the inside out.  You can cleanse the scalp with Seabreeze.  Lots of women have trouble with dry scalp in the beginning.  The hair is getting used to a different way to moisturize.  Usually it is a minor change such as increasing your water intake to help with moisture.  You can style it like loose natural hair in curls, updos, twist outs, braid outs, etc.  Sisterlocks should be washed twice a week (once a week if you work out a lot) with the Getting Started Shampoo.  Hair is retightened on a schedule based on what your consultant says.  Eventually, you can take the retightening class to save money and learn how to retighten your own hair.  Also, for color lovers you will have to wait until your locks are settled to color again.   

 

 

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Locs and sisterlocks may not be as labor intensive as loose natural hair because you don't have to "do" a lot to it to wear it in a certain style, however they are not maintenance free.   One must still take care of their locs and sisterlocks-- it is just different maintenance than loose natural hair.  If you would like more information about sisterlocks, please see the website www.sisterlocks.com.

 

 

 

 

~The Sisterlocked Diva

Outfit of the Week: Colorful Professional

Outfit of the Week:  Colorful Professional

By:  Lauren Francis-Jackson

 

 

In my job as a speech pathologist in early intervention, my day to day attire is relaxed because I sit and play on the floor with kids all day long!  However, I do like to dress it up for meetings!  So I was going to an IEP Meeting with a family, and rocked color with style!  So here is the lowdown on what I wore:

 

 

Polka Dot Blazer- Target buy for $25

 

Colorful Scarf- Target buy for $10

 

Peach Top- Target for $20

 

Purple Jeggings- Ashley Stewart on sale for $20

 

Rain Boots with Burberry like pattern-  DSW for $40

 

 

I love Target for cheap yet fun fashion!  Their tops, accessories (scarves, earrings, necklace, bracelets, etc.), shoes, and flowy dresses work well for me!  I find that being plus sized that their jeans/pants are hit or miss.  Their jeans/pants usually fit too snug in the hips or bottom.  Ashley Stewart is a great option for jeans that have a great fit. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

One of my favorite parts of this outfit  is the scarf!  The rich colors in this scarf  make it an easy accessory with any outfit.  I rocked this scarf in a previous YT video as a headwrap.  The colors in the scarf  are anchor the whole outfit, and bring it all together.  Check out my funky style!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

~The Sisterlocked Diva

Natural Hair Thugging: Why Are You Throwing Shade on Your Relaxed Friends??

Natural Hair Thugging:  Why Are You Throwing Shade on Your Relaxed Friends?

By:  Lauren Francis-Jackson

 

 

Even though you may be fulled enthralled in team natural, perhaps not all of your gal pals are team natural.  I have many good friends whom I love dearly who do not share my enthusiasm for natural hair.  They can appreciate the love of natural hair, and may even like the looks on other people however it may not be for them.  No biggie, right?  This can be a big deal for some women-- they want their friends to share in the love of team natural!  They are the ones screaming "Creamy Crack is whack" and spouting all kinds of crazy facts about why relaxers are the devil.  Really boo?!?  Weren't you relaxed three years ago?  Haha-- I'm just saying this can be a true story.  The reality is that there is nothing wrong with some of your friends rocking a relaxer!  Some women may prefer the chemically straightened look, and it works for them.  Totally cool with it because it is a woman's individual choice in how to rock her tresses.  My motto does say, "...Rock it YOUR way!"

 

My thoughts on this topic arose from a conversation I had with a college girlfriend.  She was my girl in college and still is to this day!  We were hanging tough in undergrad!  We went to many campus parties, laughed at many funny stories about dating, and shared many lunches at eateries on campus.  Well at the time both of us were slaves to the creamy crack, and now I'm natural and she is not.  In our conversation today, we began to talk about hair.  I happened to mention being excited about getting in the water this summer (hopefully--locks better get settled before beach season :-), and she spoke about being in dire need for a relaxer.  She made comments like, "You know I can't get in the water!  Gotta get my hair ready for that!" and "Yeah I can't do the natural thing-- this new growth gotta get tamed!"  I just laughed and smiled?  Why you ask-- it is as simple as this:  I love my natural hair wholeheartedly, however I realize it is not for every woman.  There is nothing wrong with that because hair is just hair!  Your hair-- it is your choice to wear it the way you want to.  No need to throw shade-- do you boo!! 

So as the conversation went on I began to see some similarities in our hair story:  she worries about the presentation and look to her hair, and so do I!  I always want to know the sisterlocks are on point! Then she began talking about how she has to schedule her appointment to get a roller set.  I definitely keep my retightening appointments come rain, sleet, snow, monsoon, tsunami, etc.. (well maybe not that tsunami)!  And she ended by saying, "Will this 'what to do with my hair' struggle ever end?"  Even though I may have wanted to say something else, I just said yeah girl you know the struggle is real!  While we have different thoughts on how to wear our hair, we agree that it is important to us as a reflection of who we are!  So don't throw shade on your girlfriend-- instead look for the ways that your hair is the same yet different!

Do you feel that you throw shade on your girlfriends who are not natural?  To the ladies who wear relaxers do you ever feel isolated or rejected by your natural hair rocking friends?

~The Sisterlocked Diva

 

Wrap It Up: Night Time Care For Your Tresses

Wrap It Up: Night Time Care For Your Tresses

By:  Lauren Francis-Jackson

 



 

If you have been natural for five minutes, you know the importance of taking care of your hair at night.  How you care for your tresses at night is important because your night time hair routine could be helping or hurting your hair!  Now we all know the biggies-- sleep with a satin pillowcase, satin bonnet, and whatnot!  But what do you do if your fro is humongous and the regular bonnet just don't work anaymore?  What about locs-- what else can I use than a bonnet??  Keep reading a learn about a few new items:

 

Big fros and lots of locs alike can enjoy this larger bonnet by Silky Wraps!  This bonnet has some sagginess to accomodate volumous hair, and makes it a good deal at $19.99.  For larger sized bonnets, this is comparable to different makers.  I also like EboniCurls, and Flor Bella Boutique on Facebook, and they sell similar versions at similar prices.

 

 

 

Teach your little diva good hair care early with this child sized bonnet by Shamooz!  Their bonnets come in fun patterns with an adjustable band.  Shamooz suggests these bonnets for girls ages 3-10.  There is a long processing time-- they are shipped within 21 business days. 

 

 

The dreadsock is a good option for lengthy locks that may not fit into a bonnet.  It can be a little tricky to put on in the beginning according to the reviews I have read, but it is easy sailing after that! These can be purchased online here.

 

 

The popular loc soc (or loc sock) can be purchased at www.soclocsoc.com.  They typically cost about $12 can hold longer locs and sisterlocks.  The material is a poly blend that is safe for locs to protect them from lint and other fibers.  They come in an array of colors and can be purchased from numerous retailers. 

 

 

How do you protect your hair at night?  Do you use other nightwear than those listed?  Please share your nighttime routine!

 

 

~The Sisterlocked Diva







Sunday Spotlight with Tynise Nicole

Sunday Spotlight with Tynise Nicole

By:  Lauren Francis-Jackson
 

 Sunday Spotlight features business owners, bloggers, natural divas, beauty companies, and more as they share their story with The Sisterlocked Diva family! Recently, I had the opportunity to interview Nicole Durrant, creator of Tynise Nicole Jewelry and Things!  Check out my interview as we discuss her funky ethnic jewelry, being a woman entrepreneur, and what jewelry can do for natural hair lovers: 

 

The Sisterlocked Diva:  I am so excited to chat with you Nicole!  Thank you for allowing me to interview you for my blog.  Tell me about your natural hair journey.

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  I started my journey five years ago.  Even when I wore a relaxer, I only had a relaxer like 2 to 3 times a year.  I was ready for something new so I cut it short in a Halle Berry cut.  I loved the cut but the upkeep was frequent and expensive!  I was relaxing my hair at least once a month.  I always knew I wanted to go natural so I figured why not now.  It would be easy to transition to short natural hair since my hair was already short.   

The Sisterlocked Diva:  I too went natural from a short cut.  More than the upkeep, I was tired of the limp hair just after getting a relaxer.  Now, let's talk jewelry-- I love your jewelry and have enjoyed the pieces I have purchased from you!  When did you become interested in designing your own jewelry?

Tynise Nicole Jewlery & Things: I have always been a creative and artistic person.  Painting is my first love!  So jewelry was something I want to try.  I like different stuff and one day I saw jewelry making kit at Michael’s.  It was amazing then people began asking me where I got my jewelry.  I was like "Wow I can actually sell my jewelry!"  When Etsy just began, my shop didn’t do well but I stayed at it.  I was also going  to craft shows and selling my jewelry at markets.  Then I got my big break--a woman who runs a craft outdoor market saw my Etsy shop and invited me to her show.  I got greater exposure after that!  I have been in business for the last 3.5 years.   

The Sisterlocked Diva:  That is wonderful!!  Sometimes it takes someone else to see our work and recognize what great things we are capable of!  What gave you the motivation to keep going with the Etsy shop?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things: At that time, it was about me thriving off a creative passion.  When I went to craft shows and markets, I always did well.  I knew that Etsy was not the main venue to do business.  I began the jewelry in the early part of 2010.  About this time last year I launched my website and big cartel website.  It is kind of like Etsy.  I continue to maintain my Etsy shop as well, however I have more items available on my website and my big cartel website.

The Sisterlocked Diva:  People are buying more from small businesses like yours so being visible in the community at craft shows and online is smart. I want you to think back to when we met.   I remember when I met you-- you explained that you decided to transition from full time 9 to 5 work and move toward entrepreneurship.   Why did you decide to pursue entrepreneurship?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  Great memory!  I was in a job that I hated, but it provided me with lots of opportunities.  I wanted to make my own dreams come true not just making someone else’s dream come true.  I saved money and built my safety net.  When I felt the time was right, I left the job.  Working for myself can be challenging, but it is so rewarding as well!

The Sisterlocked Diva:  I like how you had a plan for what you needed to do to get yourself financially ready for entrepreneurship!  What's the most challenging thing about being self-employed?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  Sometimes that means working through the night because you are in control of your own productivity and earnings .  I  work a part time job as well to make ends meet.  You have to staying motivated by making your business the best it can be.  There is always something to do so your have to prioritize your goals! 

The Sisterlocked Diva:  I agree with working crazy long hours-- I certainly do as a blogger.  Whether blogging or posting to social media sites it is What advice would you give to other women entrepreneurs trying to tthe full time job after my regular 9 to 5 is done!  What advice would you give to a woman looking to turn their passion into a career?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  First, I would do some self-evaluation to see if you are truly passionate about your business.  I had to do sacrifice as in not eating out all the time, no more weekly shopping trips, etc.  You have to want to put the time and effort in.  There will be things that you will have to give up. 

Secondly, if you get in it and decide that it is not working, sometimes you have to let it go.  That does not mean that you have to give up your entrepreneurial dreams.  Sometimes you have to change courses.  After you have done all you can, and things are still not growing—that may be the time to let it go. 

The Sisterlocked Diva:  As I am building my brand, I try to think ahead to entrepreneurship so your advice is appreciated!  Now about your jewelry-- how would you describe your jewelry?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  My jewelry is an expression of my inner creative side.  It feeds off of a natural inspirations!  I love African jewelry—the colors, the materials.  I like putting my own modern twist on ethnically designed jewelry. 

 

The Sisterlocked Diva:  I would agree that your jewelry does have an ethnic feel to it! Have you taken any classes to increase your knowledge in making jewelry or choosing materials?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  I did take a class—silversmithing class to learn how to work with different metals.  I would love to take an advanced metal class.  Mostly I am self taught through books, and YouTube. 

The Sisterlocked Diva:  Awesome!  Your handcrafted metals are funky!  As a natural woman, how can we use jewelry to accessorize our look?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  For women, I think that we are so different yet beautiful in our own unique way.  Jewelry is a way to enhance what you have.  I love to accessorize my ensemble.  It gives you more confidence—it’s kind of like what makeup does.  There is so much jewelry out there—you need that unique statement piece to set you a part.  It compliements you—I want my jewelry to speak, and to motivate women to do more.

The Sisterlocked Diva:  Love how you put that-- jewelry should speak! What are the current trends for jewelry for 2013?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  Honestly, I don’t follow trends with jewelry most of the time.  I get inspired by old ancient inspirations like Egyptians.  I like the unique—not just what you can buy with the store. 

The Sisterlocked Diva:  I agree that with traditional stores like NY & Company, you can see many people with the same earrings or whatever. Any big projects or events coming up in 2013?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  I am working on two collections—one should be released on Friday!  I am also do spring collection—a small one to be released in mid March.  I am looking to begin selling my jewellry in a local store in Maryland in March.  I am also working on a few more stores!  Also, I did trunk show in November.  I would like to do another one in 2013.  I want to take classes in enameling and metal smithing. 

The Sisterlocked Diva:  Nice!!  Looking forward to the new collection!!  Do you plan to expand your line to carry other accessories (e.g., loc jewelry, hair accessories, etc.)?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  I would love to offer more!  Jewelry designing just comes natural to me.  A friend of mine asked me to create something to hold his locs.  I have gotten requests from men to design men’s jewelry.  I would like to look into adding some men's jewelry!

The Sisterlocked Diva:  Men's jewelry would be a great market!  Would you be willing to offer any special deals to The Sisterlocked Diva readers? If so, what would you offer?

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  Yeah, I would love to do a giveaway with you!  I would also offer discount for the time period of the giveaway

The Sisterlocked Diva:  Loving it-- we love giveaways! Do you teach jewelry making classes? Any recommendations on jewelry making classes in the DC area?

 

Tynise Nicole Jewelry & Things:  I do one on one teaching!  I do a basic intro to beading class.  If anyone is interested, they can email me for more information! 

 

 

 

Thank you Nicole for chatting it up with The Sisterlocked Diva!  If you are interested in being featured in the Sunday Spotlight, email The Sisterlocked Diva!

 

~The Sisterlocked Diva

Top Twenty Reasons Why You Should Be At Cupcakes and Cocktails 2013

Top Twenty Reasons Why You Should Be At Cupcakes & Cocktails 2013 

By:  Lauren Francis-Jackson

 

 

In ten more days, it is here!  The event of 2013 is the 3rd Annual Cupcakes & Cocktails: A Diva Soiree sponsored by Curls!  On March 16th, hundreds of divas should be headed to SPX Hall in Forestville, MD for this event!  From 1pm to 6pm, prepare to be dazzled by natural hair demos, exercise demonstrations, vendors, spoken word, and much more!  So why do you need to be in the building on March 16th??  Here are 20 reasons why:

 

 

1.  The Sisterlocked Diva will be on the panel discussing natural hair versus relaxed hair!  You know I always have something to say!

 

2.  The event is going to be covered by Essence Magazine so come dressed to impress ladies!  There will be a spread in an upcoming Essence Magazine issue!

 

3.  The tickets are reasonable at only $10!  You can't even go to the movies for $10 nowadays! 

 

4.  The first 100 women in line will receive a diva glam bag with goodies from vendors and sponsors!  That means get there early ladies!

 

5.  Makeup tuttorials to get your face BEAT!!! Nothing like fabulous makeup to make you up as a diva!

 

6.  The Sisterlocked Diva will be hanging out with her meetup group buddies!  I love my friends in the DMV!  You can join me by joining the meetup group at www.meetup.com/thesisterlockeddiva!

 

7.  If you are trying to get your exercise game better, check out the exercise demos!  I am sure they can give you information on the hottest group exercise classes in the DMV!

 

8.  Spoken word!  I love me some poet boys (and if they are downright handsome like my boo that's cool too)!  Catch some artistic flavor through spoken word! 

 

9.  Is your dating life dead as a doornail??  Well come listen to the dating panel to get some tips on meeting Mr. Right in 2013!

 

10.  Come shop with The Sisterlocked Diva!  I plan to check out the clothing and jewelry vendors!  My girl Allison of Pretty Little Wire will be in the building!

 

11.  Complimentary cupcakes and cocktails!!  Hello-- you know you want some yummy cupcakes and get diva'd with an adult beverage!

 

12.  Karaoke is always fun whether sober or tipsy lol!  Now I will be the first to say I cannot blow like Beyonce, however I love me some karaoke!!  Bring your best antics and voice!!

 

13.  You haven't seen your girls in forever, soooooooo what better way to reunite than coming for a diva day at Cupcakes & Cocktails!

 

14.  Your husband has offered to watch the kids so you can do "your thing"!!  Yes no kids too?!?!  Time to have some fun times with the girls without having someone say "Mom!" 50 times at the time of their lungs ;-)

 

15.  Because you are not doing anything that Saturday, and you need to get out of the house after this "Snowquestration"!

 

16.  You want to give back because proceeds from ticket sales go to support the Lupus Foundation DC Chapter, and the Lupie Chicks! 

 

17.  Eat one of my favorite cupcakes with me-- Red Velvet Cupcakes!  If you have known The Sisterlocked Diva for 2 seconds, you should know I LOVE red velvet cupcakes!

 

18.  Get down with some new fashion trends by checking out the fashion show!  Check model divas strutting their stuff down the runway. 

 

19.  You live close by in  Upper Marlboro, Temple Hills, DC, or another neighboring area!  Just hop in the car and get there as soon as you can!  I would want to get my hands on that diva glam bag!

 

20.  Everyone you know is going to be there (including me)!  Your neighbor, best friend, mom, grandma, aunt, sister, and cousin will all want to be in the building to get their diva glam on!

 

 

 

So grab every woman you know and get your tickets for the event of 2013!  See you there!

 

 

~The Sisterlocked Diva